When my friend Sara and I were young writers in downtown Chicago at my first job, we would distract ourselves from writing bank copy by creating our own novel about a clueless co-worker who would never cease to amaze us with her actions. Agnes in the Fog would probably be a best-seller today because Sara is one of the most gifted and witty writers in the profession. My contribution was mostly laughing at her copy and egging her on to write more.
Processing a scary health situation is like being in a constant fog. You get through one medical test or appointment that may answer one question but create a slew more. You wake up some days thinking this is not really happening, but the reality doesn’t go away. You are grateful to learn as much as you can through the Internet but sorry you know the range of possibilities.
For me the fog was lifted, but for so many families the uncertainties, tests and next steps remain a very long process. We admire those who persevere and wish we could do more. For our family the words, actions and perspectives of friends were invaluable to us, and continue to be so. Take the time to show that you are there when others need you. It makes a big difference.
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